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Superficial people

Saturday, June 28, 2008

Sometimes, I find it utterly amusing that other people can just be so superficial.
Not in the sense superficial-superficial but saying things that are so superficial.

Case 1:

So happened to my biological sister. I think her whole clique is screwed up. Shan't mention names here but they are really screwed up lor.

Like, so what if her boyfriend is not a Singaporean? I find it weird that they actually discriminates non-singaporean.

For me, I actually think race overpowers nationality man. Even though I have no problem with making friends with people of other races, I simply cannot accept a potential partner of another race.

LOL, I don't want a wedding under a HDB block. Joking.

But seriously, I don't see any wrong in dating someone of another country of the same race.

Man, thus the conclusion: they are retarded.

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Why? Cos they even octrasize her because of her boyfriend.

True friends should be happy for her that she finally found love.

So...... they are VERY TRUE friends hor.

:)

They should be ashamed of themselves man. Seriously. How old are you guys? 3 years old?

I think a toddler is much more matured in thinking than them lor.

You guys survived years and years of friendship, like since secondary school? And I find that awesome lah. I'm not that close to my secondary school friends already lor but I am happy that my clique is still together and close till now.

Then you guys become so superficial with her just because she has got a non-singaporean bf. Well done. :]

Somemore, you guys can comment badly of her IN FRONT of her face. However, I think that front stabbing is alot better than backstabbing.

But do you know how retarded it is to say someone looks like a ghost then began dissing her about it?

LOL, and to think that you guys don't look any better than her. At the very least, I share the same genes as her (some) whereas you guys??? Where do you guys stand?

You guys have absolutely no right to comment her until like that man.

Cos in the first place, in my humble opinion, you guys look worse than her so it would be better for you guys to stfu to save some saving grounds for yourselves. Maybe I will buy you guys some mirrors on your birthday. :)

Fucking retards. I can't stand superficial like them lor. & let's hope the read this. They have some serious issues and they should just learn how to grow up.

Gah!!!

Case 2:

I kept discuss about these with my closest friends.

Is it right for a girl to play some other guy and kept giving the impression that she is super single and available?

......... It's funny you know.

Cos when the girl kept giving signs of being interested in that particular guy up to the point in asking him to wait for her reply.....

I don't think it is very appropriate cos the guy will in turn, has high hopes of getting the girl. Not very clever hor, the girl. Want free treats also not liddat one mah. Haha.

Then, one fine fucking day, the girl suddenly decides to reject the guy and the world of the guy just came crashing down.

LOL, drama but true.

So I find it very superficial of that girl lor. Quite bitchy in a sense too. In a more hurting way, she is using him which isn't very nice yeah?

Oh well, life.

Case 3:

(Yes, there is still more!)

This has got to be the most ranting ground on one.

I am actually the most unhappy about this one. I have been thinking whether I should blog this in a looooooooooong time.

I hesitated not because I am afraid but because even if I said it, will it make things better? But I am taking a risk here cos I think that particular someone should know about it lah.

Right? Else it will just get worse and worse and in the end, there will be no more coming back.

... & I don't want that to happen.

It actually happened quite a while ago.

Three friends, let us call them Albert*, Jasmine* and Cindy*, went clubbing
altogether happily.

Jasmine and Cindy indulged in alcohol and
got pretty high afterwards. They went towards the dance floor and danced.

Albert proceeded to dance with Cindy. In a quite intimidating
way lah.

Jasmine, being left all alone, went dancing with
another group of friends. Then she decides that she should not be leaving Cindy
all alone to dance with Albert.

Thus, she went to pull Cindy
away from Albert.

Jasmine's group of friends then circled around
both of them and don't allow Albert to enter through them.

Jasmine started dancing with one other guy. Albert tried to stop
her but to no avail. Vice versa for Cindy.

Albert stormed off,
not before saying harsh words like,"I'm gonna look for other girls."

He disappeared for a whole good 30 minutes before being
spotted at the corner of the club, drinking.

The very next
thing, Jasmine's boyfriend was informed that she has been dancing with another
guy and that guy was touching her EVERYWHERE.

Amazing or not? It
was later found out that Albert was the one who told Jasmine's boyfriend with
regards to the matter. But hor, Albert himself also danced the same way as the
other guy danced with Jasmine leh.

So he doesn't practice
what he preaches? I think Albert did what he did cos he is jealous and angry
that both his friends leave him alone.

But, if Cindy will to
continue dancing with him the same manner, would he still call up Jasmine's
boyfriend to tell him what happened?

Had been very angry
about this you know, Albert.

So I ought that maybe you
should have known. Cos you were a closer friend with Jasmine relative to her
boyfriend. You should have confronted her first before shooting your mouth off
like that.

Especially when you were quite a close friend
to Jasmine. It's very disappointing. You polly did the right thing with the
wrong intentions. That's how I feel.

Wah, I feel so much better typing these and ranting all I could out. This entry will just abruptly end here cos I had said my piece already.

And I hope all the above people can reflect upon themselves lah. Cos what they had done ain't being very nice.

* Names have been changed.

-Sign Off @ 1:23 AM :)